Marriage of Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and Hajjah Amina

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Permalink Reply by Amatullah on April 8, 2009 at 4:21pm

Walaikum as Salam Wa Rahmatullah sis.

Here is an excerpt from: http://www.hakkanipost.com/en_pg_goster2.asp?menukod=MENU0041&k...

'Our Grandshaykh Abdullah Dagistani (qs) was living to streets upwards from where we were living. One day at a funeral of a Daghestani Shaykh, he met my father and said to him: “I would like to speak to you about a good cause. I have a student, whom  I am very fond of and  see as my son. He is from Cyprus and I would like your daughter’s hand in marriage for Sir Nazim”. I was very precious for my father and he taught long about this proposal. When he came home he told my brother and he remembered Sir Nazim from the derwish convent (dergah) and said: “If that’s the man that I saw in the mosque, he looked more like an angel than a man”. 


We gave our answer to Abdullah Dagistani (qs) and he wrote a letter to Sir Nazim in Lefkosia, telling him to come. Within a week we had our religious wedding (niqah). The most interesting part of this occasion was that before none of this happened Abdullah Dagistani (qs) saw our beloved Prophet (sav) in his dream telling him: “Ask the hand of Sir Ali’s daughter for Sir Nazim”. While saying this the Prophet pointed his finger towards the sky. Shaykh Abdullah saw a frame surrounded by heavenly light and in it he could see the picture of Sir Nazim and Sultan Hajjah Emine. The Prophet then said: “Their niqah was made in Heaven".    



In the years 1975 till 1976 Sultan Hajjah Emine lost her father Sir Hajji Ali and her mother Ayse. During her marriage to Shaykh Nazim El-Hakkani (qs), she had 5 children and lived in the Holy city of Damascus untill 1982. In those years Shaykh Nazim would frequently visit Cyprus. This valuable family still live in Lefke and have 14 beautiful grandchildren.'

Permalink Reply by Shafiqah Wayfarer on April 9, 2009 at 7:44am

wow mashAllah!!!! Thats beautiful, and to think their niqqah was made in Heaven! subhanAllah, really that is an amazing story. Thank you sis

Permalink Reply by yasmine khan on May 4, 2009 at 9:40am

salam alikom...how can you know it was made in heaven? this heaven no one can see but our profit salla allah alihi wasalam.its was ablessed marriage yes cause the father approved and they both are good people but beyond that limit we have no right. salam

Permalink Reply by Jamila on May 15, 2009 at 7:07am

As-salam aleykoum. It is well known that, according to the station of the saints, at some point they are authorized by Allah to read on the Preserved Tablets (that's how they know what they have to do each day, watch sohbats of Mawlana Shaykh Hisham on the levels of murshid on Sufi Live on that subject). It is also part of their duty to look and see if 2 persons are written to be togheter by Allah's will. Mawlana Shaykh Hisham told us many times that in the time of Grandshaykh Abdallah ad Daguestani, the parents of the futur husband and wife were always going to ask him (even when he was 7 years old) before they would engage their children. Like this, it creates stability in a community because happy mariages creates stability. It is also recomanded that anyone ask a real saint before he gets married if the name of his or her fiancé is writen next to his on the Preserved Tablets. Mawlana Shaykh Hisham has told us that we have to ask him first before guetting married and follow what he says (even if it is a negative answer) because it is according to Allah's will and it can save us from many troubles. So, talking about the marriage beetween Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (may Allah give him long life) and Hajja Amina (may Allah sanctify her secret) and saying that their marriage was made in heavens is perfectly authorized because it is perfectly true! GrandShaykh Abdallah himself read it on the Preserved tablets and transmitted Allah's will.

Wa min Allah at tawfiq.

Good day to everyone.

Jamila

yasmine khan said:

salam alikom...how can you know it was made in heaven? this heaven no one can see but our profit salla allah alihi wasalam.its was ablessed marriage yes cause the father approved and they both are good people but beyond that limit we have no right. salam

Permalink Reply by Sandal on May 18, 2009 at 3:39am

jamila aapa ,
is that really possible? i mean they can tell you , whose name is written next to urs?
really? it amazes me sister but i belive its true allah is great !

Permalink Reply by Sajeda Kabbani on July 5, 2009 at 3:08pm

That was such a beautiful story Masha'Allah! Thank you for sharing it with us. It made me cry. May Allah bless Shaykh Nazim and Hajjah Anne Insha'Allah.

Permalink Reply by Jumilia on August 23, 2009 at 3:44am

MashaAllah, thank you for the post.
Jamila, thank you for the info, it's very useful indeed :)
Have a blessed Ramadan sisters, may Allah keep up on the right path Ameen.

Permalink Reply by Ran on June 14, 2010 at 3:34am

Subhanallah, many thanks for the post

Such a beautiful story. May Allah bless their family.

Permalink Reply by sadia on July 16, 2011 at 10:47am

I thought  Sis Jamila wrote that Parents would to come to Grand Sheikh asking for his permission to get their 7year old kids engaged!! i thought that was rather stange:p But then I re-read it,lol Phew!